om Landry's involvement with
Baylor began when he became the head coach of the Dallas
Cowboys. Baylor physicians were the team doctors from the
beginning of the franchise, and Baylor physicians
continue today in this same capacity. This identification
and service brought both players and coaches to the
institution. Tom's wife, Alicia, is a Dallasite and has
had an even longer relationship with the medical center.
I
came to Baylor in early 1980 as the new chief executive
officer. I was already a Cowboys fan, but in particular,
I was a great admirer of Tom Landry. I
did not realize at that time I would have the
privilege of developing a close friendship with the coach
(Figure).
We had not been in Dallas very long when one of our
trustees, Jack Folmar, invited Peggy and me to a small
dinner party at his home. There would be 4 couples,
including Tom and Alicia Landry. I was both pleased and
excited. I began to think of some of the great games the
Cowboys had played, and I had many questions I wanted to
ask of Tom. As the evening approached and my anticipation
built, my wife reminded me what it was like to attend a
social event and be asked questions about the hospital
and how inappropriate it seemed at the time. She
suggested that Coach Landry would probably appreciate an
evening without constant questions about the team. I
reluctantly agreed she was right, but I was somewhat
deflated by the proposition.
We arrived at the party and had a lovely dinner with
pleasant conversation, but not one word was mentioned
about football. It seems I was not the only husband to
have been prompted in advance. Finally, someone broke the
ice, and it was just like the television commercial for
E. F. Hutton. We all leaned forward to listen and
thoroughly enjoyed the remainder of the evening. This was
the beginning of our friendship.
We became involved in a number of programs and events.
We both had an interest in young people. Tom was involved
with the Fellowship of Christian Athletes (FCA), and I
worked with Young Life. We crossed over and helped each
other at different events and sponsorships. I was most
impressed to learn recently that FCA estimated that Tom's
volunteer work raised $100 million in donations. Today,
the largest and most successful golf tournament for FCA
is the Tom Landry Tournament in Dallas.
Tom loved golf, and we enjoyed playing together from
time to time. The highlight was playing in Augusta with
Frank Broyles, athletic director at the University of
Arkansas and the president of FCA. Golf is a great game
for building relationships and having an enjoyable time.
I was intrigued by the public's fascination with Tom.
When people saw him they were attracted to him. When we
went to a sporting event in Dallas this was evident. I
recall an occasion when Tom was invited to speak to a
meeting in Fort Worth attended by 15,000 people, and I
was asked to introduce him. Dewey and Virginia Presley
and Peggy and I picked the Landrys up and went to dinner
prior to the meeting at the Convention Center. I had
worked seriously on my remarks, focusing on both Tom's
professional achievements and personal qualities. My
introduction was interrupted twice by applause, and the
standing ovation Tom received was most moving.
I asked Tom to join us at our annual management
retreat in 1998 to share some thoughts regarding
leadership. He did so and was so well received. Following
his remarks, as was his custom, he graciously signed
autographs for those in attendance. I have personalized
photos of Tom for my 2 grandsons.
I certainly enjoyed our friendship, and little did I
know that Tom and his family would need the service of
our physicians and medical center. The first need was for
his daughter Lisa. After waiting for 8 years to become
pregnant, she finally received the good news. Shortly
thereafter, however, she was diagnosed with cancer and
came to Baylor for her care. Lisa rejected treatment for
herself in order to give the baby a chance to be born.
She felt this was a gift from God, and she was determined
to honor that gift. The baby was born healthy. However,
within 10 days Lisa needed a liver transplant to prolong
her life. The transplant resulted in Lisa's having 4
additional years to help raise her young daughter. Lisa
was a wonderful young woman who exhibited the same strong
faith of her father. I would visit her often to try to
encourage her, and I would leave her room the encouraged
one. The strength of Tom and the rest of the family was
truly remarkable. Today, in Lisa's honor, there is a
foundation to help create donor awareness among
grade-school children.
The second major need for Baylor was with Tom's own
illness with leukemia. The Baylor physicians and staff
were truly outstanding in Tom's care. And, Tom was truly
an outstanding patient. The 9-month course of treatment
required Tom to be in the hospital for weeks at a time.
Alicia's devotion to Tom was never more evident. As Dr.
David Winter observed on the evening of Tom's death, you
could see the level of contribution Alicia had made to
Tom's life.
I visited with Tom often during the course of his
care, and I cannot recall one time that he complained
about his condition or his circumstance. On my last visit
I arrived with the family in the room around Tom's bed,
and he had just taken his last breath. I was honored to
join the family at that time in reading some of Tom's
favorite scriptures and in thanking God for Tom's life. I
was not surprised to observe that Tom died with the same
dignity with which he lived.
It was shortly after Tom left the Cowboys that we were
in the midst of building our sports medicine complex.
After consultation with trustees and physicians, we
decided to seek Tom's permission to name the facility in
his honor. I approached him on the tee box of the first
hole at Royal Oaks Country Club during the annual FCA
tournament and shared with him what we wanted to do. He
asked for a few days to think about it and a week later
called to accept.
I was asked at the time of Tom's death to give 3
television interviews. Each wanted to know how Baylor
came to name the sports and research center in Tom's
name. Did he make a contribution? What did he do to get
the naming? The answer was very simple. Baylor wanted to
honor this extraordinary individual.
As we have witnessed in recent days the uniform
acclaim of Tom's life, his faith, and the character
traits we all admire, we are struck that we have had one
of God's finest people in our community with enormous
influence for the right reasons. His legacy will be
captured in many ways in Dallas. We are honored to have
part of that legacy on the Baylor campus.
Thanks, Tom.
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